Ahh, the ever elusive excellent BJ. Welcome to Good Head 101.
I don’t claim to be an expert, however, I do claim to give great head. Excellent in fact. Please feel free to share support, opinions, and/or dissenting views in the comments section…
Without further adieu…
First, ladies and gentleman: Enjoy it. That might be the number one thing. Sucking cock is not a chore, it is hot. There is power in sucking a good cock.
Once le coq (that’s “the rooster” in French, their national animal – no wonder so many people are Francophiles!) is free — swipe your hand lightly down it twice to remove any stray pubes. Gross I know, but necessary. Now, back to the sexy talk…
Get down on your knees or on all fours:
1. Take just the tip of the cock in your mouth. Swirl your tongue around the top. At this point, start thinking about really salivating, so you can really lube up the shaft.
2. After a few seconds of sucking/tonguing just the tip, take a little more cock into your mouth. That’s right, get into it a little bit. Enjoy yourself!!
3. Withdraw the cock, back to just the tip. At this point, about half the shaft should be getting nice and lubed up from your hot mouth.
Bonus: Throw a moan or two in — the man will like the vibration.
Bonus II: Go ahead and massage the balls a little bit, if he’s into it. Hell, some men even like a little ball-tug, but that should probably be discussed first.
4. Work your way down the shaft, allowing more and more cock deep into your throat. Focus on making sure the shaft is getting slick with saliva. Worried about gag reflex? Just relax into it. If you gag a little bit, he won’t mind, keep at it, you’ll get better with practice!
Now here comes the real magic…
5. After a few minutes of bobbing up and down on the shaft, and it is nice and wet… invite Jack to the party. Pull your mouth back, just for a second, and slide your hand down over the head and down to the base of the shaft. Jack, as in jack off – obviously. The key to a great BJ is the ability to utilize your mouth and hand simultaneously.
6. As you jack the shaft with your hand, make sure your grip is secure, and that your hand is lubed up with saliva to slide easily. As soon as your hand is working its magic, get your mouth back over that tip.
7. At this point, you can get into a rhythm with the jacking up and down, with the mouth bobbing up and down. Your mouth can fit nearly right up to your hand, and fully jack/suck up and down, get as much of that fat cock in your mouth as possible, while still being able to jack the base. Put some passion into it, keep the saliva flowing… it won’t be long before that hard cock is busting a nut right into your mouth.
Implement these 7 steps above & you’ll be a *BJ Queen*
Bonus: Swallowing is optional. Personally, unless I’m in love or the guy is really really hot, or a baseball player, I’m a spitter.
Side note: teeth placement. Basically, keep them off the cock! I’ve heard of a “lip wrap around,” but personally, I like a full lip suck-a-licous action, so I am just careful to keep my mouth open wide enough so teeth placement is not an issue.
Rebel Annie, Xo